Divorce & homeless & want to leave
Posted: Mon 12 Nov 2018 8:13 pm
35 year old mum to 3 children, married 6 years,
Unfortunatly the biggest mistake ofy life.
Cypriot husband always threatening me and I feel I'm in abusive marriage.
I asked him to take a loan for support money for kids so I can leave him and go back to UK.
He's agreed to sort that all out, but I'm so afraid what to do next!
I have been here 11 years, first weekend I come to live with parents before they divorced mum decides to tell me she's finished with my dad after 31 years.. no reason. New villa sold quick sale, she then moved to Turkey with new fella she met after. Remarried.
Dad went back to UK.
I was here alone with my son as single parent fending for myself with no help at all.
Since then, none of my family bother with me, no contact. Nothing.
I looked after myself for 3 years until imet somebody then after a year together we got married and had 2 children together.
Was great at first although I was never accepted by any of his family and relatives for being a single parent!
Which has always strain on out relationship.
Before I moved here 11 years ago, I was living in Newquay Cornwall for 8 years where my son is from.
I'm trying to get back there again, because I no it was where we was happy before.
I will totally be leaving here with nothing, onlyy kids and a few cases. And a little bit of support money to help me for short while.
The questions are ...
1)Am I still entitled to government help untill I'm ony feet to look for work.
Also I would need help with housing.
2) can I easily registery 2 children in UK that was born in trnc?
3) am I able to go back to Newquay Cornwall where I left before I come here?
4) will we be homeless when we arrive?
5) do I get divorced here first before I leave?
I hope somebody can advise me what I can do.
Thankyou
Unfortunatly the biggest mistake ofy life.
Cypriot husband always threatening me and I feel I'm in abusive marriage.
I asked him to take a loan for support money for kids so I can leave him and go back to UK.
He's agreed to sort that all out, but I'm so afraid what to do next!
I have been here 11 years, first weekend I come to live with parents before they divorced mum decides to tell me she's finished with my dad after 31 years.. no reason. New villa sold quick sale, she then moved to Turkey with new fella she met after. Remarried.
Dad went back to UK.
I was here alone with my son as single parent fending for myself with no help at all.
Since then, none of my family bother with me, no contact. Nothing.
I looked after myself for 3 years until imet somebody then after a year together we got married and had 2 children together.
Was great at first although I was never accepted by any of his family and relatives for being a single parent!
Which has always strain on out relationship.
Before I moved here 11 years ago, I was living in Newquay Cornwall for 8 years where my son is from.
I'm trying to get back there again, because I no it was where we was happy before.
I will totally be leaving here with nothing, onlyy kids and a few cases. And a little bit of support money to help me for short while.
The questions are ...
1)Am I still entitled to government help untill I'm ony feet to look for work.
Also I would need help with housing.
2) can I easily registery 2 children in UK that was born in trnc?
3) am I able to go back to Newquay Cornwall where I left before I come here?
4) will we be homeless when we arrive?
5) do I get divorced here first before I leave?
I hope somebody can advise me what I can do.
Thankyou